I am not sure what family will disapprove in caring for their child. The resources the child will receive will only benefit them. While I am atheist, I will take the child to the appropriate religion’s church if local. I will teach the child about adult life, and things such as budgeting. They will receive an allowance, and that would mean they should learn how paying for things sacrifices some of the money they have. They will learn there are financial consequences for spending the money without planning.
The child will receive a significant allowance, but this is because, I am making them responsible for their own computer, and their own phone(s). The cash gift will be signficant, but it can easily drain out quickly if the chhild seeks to try to get the most fancy of anything. With that said, they will learn to temper desires, and resources. They will have to earn their TV, and smart TV adapter through good behavior. They will continue to have to be well behaved if they would want to keep the privileges that I am not obgligated to give them.
The child will again, learn about what it is to be an adult. Even an 8 year old should learn that society does not reward them for behaving. By teaching this, it will eliminate the “I deserve” this mentality that can get the child in trouble. They will learn financial consequences. This will teach the child to make priorities and decide what is important to them, and isn’t that what we all do anyways? I will just not sugarcoat life with the child.